🏷️ [Digital Detox] Building a Sanctuary of the Mind Beyond Media: My Honest Journey

Hello. This is Lee Seojun.

Today, I want to share a very honest and thrilling realization I recently experienced—namely, about ‘Digital Detox.’ It might be a bit long, but I am confident that if you read until the end, you will get a clear and refreshing answer to the mysterious fatigue of daily life.

01. The ‘Hidden Fatigue’ That Arrived When I Believed I Was Doing Well

For some time, an unexplainable fatigue heavily weighed down my body and mind, causing me a lot of worry.

I was already practicing ‘media detox’—a self-improvement practice of cutting off media—and celibacy. I believed, ‘In my own way, I am controlling my life well and moving in the right direction.’

However, at some point, corners of my mind became scattered, and the remnants of negative emotions began to ripple to the surface.

“Huh? I’m clearly doing well, so why does my brain keep shaking and feeling so distracted?”

Some days, led by lethargy, I slept until 2 PM, and upon waking up, my energy was drained by a flood of chaotic thoughts. I even wondered, ‘Is the direction of the affirmations I’ve been engraving in my brain wrong?’

To regain my focus, I opened a book and constantly chanted modified affirmations such as “It’s okay, I am happy,” which adapted phrases like ‘Thank you’ and ‘I love you.’ Raising my energy consciously seemed to clear my head a bit, but the strange emptiness and fatigue remaining in a corner of my soul did not easily fade.

02. What I Truly Wanted Was ‘Clear Energy,’ Not ‘Wealth’

Closing the book and quietly shutting my eyes, I asked myself a fundamental question: ‘If I were to become as wealthy as I want, what would I actually want to do?’

Living a life in a top-tier apartment like Signiel, setting up my own home gym perfectly soundproofed without any inter-floor noise, and living spaciously and luxuriously with my family. Feeling the soft texture of luxury clothes. Of course, such material affluence flashed through my mind.

But when I listened to the voice of my heart, the true number one priority was different. It was ‘a relaxed and prosperous mind,’ and ‘a clear, powerful energy that never tires no matter what I do.’

• Even if I go on a wonderful trip to Indonesia,
• Even if I open my favorite book to read,
• Even if I exercise intensely to train my body,

If I don’t have intact vitality and energy within me, all that abundance is just a ‘burden’ that wears me out.

03. The Identity of the ‘Dopamine Thief’ Discovered in a Split Second

To quench that thirst, I searched for videos of ‘Signiel’—Korea’s famous high-rise residence—on YouTube, trying to visually connect my desired energy of abundance.

But in a corner of the screen, news articles with provocative headlines popped up through the algorithm, and I found myself unconsciously clicking them one by one and scrolling down.

It wasn’t because it was particularly fun. It was just to soothe a bit of boredom, or perhaps due to a strange compulsion that I had to personally analyze and dig out the truth behind provocative titles to feel at peace. After reading a controversial article about a famous celebrity for a while, I fell into a deceptive illusion of fulfillment, as if I knew the entire flow of the world.

Then, just as I was preparing dinner, a single question flashed through my mind in a split second.

“Wait… could even these ‘articles’ that I mindlessly read
be a form of stimulation?”

The moment that thought crossed my mind, I intuitively knew it was the absolute truth. As if my brain was mocking me for only realizing this huge contradiction now, an absurd yet thrilling chuckle escaped my lips.

When I consulted my precious AI friend, a clear answer came back. Text-based gossip and news were also stimulants that completely interfered with media detox. If flashy videos explode dopamine all at once, the nature of text-based provocative articles was a mechanism that stealthily and bit by bit snatched away our dopamine constantly.

At that moment, time around me slowed down, and I cried out in my heart, “I finally found it, the true cause of my fatigue.”

04. The Evolution of Stimuli, and Progression to a Higher Dimension

The moment all the puzzle pieces clicked together, I snapped awake. The overwhelming purity from when I first succeeded in celibacy and media detox returned to my bodily senses. No, it was a sensation that had evolved to a much higher stage than back then. My scattered mind filled with firm plans and powerful self-confidence.

It is an already widely known neuroscientific fact that when humans undergo a detox process to control stimuli, blocking one stimulus subtly leads the brain to slip down another path.

For men, the evolutionary stages of a brain conditioned to stimuli can be broken down as follows:

[Porno] ➔ [Celibacy] ➔ [Media Detox (Cutting off video)] ➔ [Delivery Food] ➔ [Gossip Articles]

When you practice abstinence, you fall into video media; when you cut off video, the brain quietly wriggles to fill up dopamine with provocative delivery food or gossip articles.

Ultimately, the fact that I shook because I reached the stage of reading gossip articles did not mean I failed, but that I was standing right in front of the final gateway, which is much more sophisticated and advanced than before. It was the moment I could finally completely control the environment I faced.

05. How to Endure Boredom and Move Toward Full-Power Energy

Now that I clearly know the cause, a massive energy surges up again from within my heart. My remaining goals are now crystal clear.

• Writing 10,000 blog posts
• Creating 1,000 YouTube videos
• Publishing 10 books containing philosophy
• Releasing 100 music albums that touch the heart

I remember a time in the past when lethargy hit me during a period of stagnation doing nothing, and I regained brilliant vitality by writing stories or blog posts. Ultimately, the cause of the fatigue eroding my daily life wasn’t because I worked a lot, but because my heart was being swayed by subtle stimuli.

Lastly, I want to share a deeply fundamental and powerful tip with those walking this path with me. It is the miracle of ‘sleeping early.’

When you perfectly execute a stimulus detox, strangely enough, you experience a deep urge to sleep as soon as the sun goes down. It is a signal from a body that has been masked by stimuli, finally demanding true recovery. Re-realizing this essence myself, I have now decided to unconditionally lie down in bed whenever it hits 8:50 PM. Just lying down means more than 50% of the recovery is successful.

Due to our evolutionary instinct as humans, we must go to bed before 10 PM for our hormones and nervous system to completely reset.

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To all of you who have reached the realm of ‘Digital Detox,’ the final stage: you are truly amazing, and you have worked so hard. Now, the only task of growth left for us is to wholly endure and enjoy the ‘boredom’ where stimuli have vanished.

I hope my honest journey today ignited a small spark in your daily life. If it was helpful, please firmly press the like heart button once!

Thank you 🙂