Sasuke and Itachi's Breakup - True Love Stays Together

Today's breakups are often painful, confusing, and complicated because the first thing that comes to mind is the breakup of a romantic relationship. Living together, moving forward together, sometimes fighting...

But are we, perhaps, misunderstanding what a true breakup is?

In this article, we hope that Sasuke and Itachi's breakup will give you a new perspective on what true love is and how you perceive breakups.

The breakup we all go through

When we break up, we hurt the other person and relive all their faults as if we'll never see them again.

But that attitude is deeply damaging to the other person, as well as to your own heart.

Many couples break up for reasons other than circumstance, such as personality differences, careers, and values. But can they really be the reason?

I sometimes think. Maybe these are the reasons why ‘An excuse made up because love has grown cold’Mismatched personalities and values can be uncomfortable to live with. But I think the real problem lies elsewhere.

Sasuke and Itachi, their breakup?

Sasuke and Itachi were brothers and enemies. Sasuke believed his brother Itachi had murdered his family and clan, and his anger and revenge had consumed his entire life.

But the truth is different: Itachi murdered his clan on orders from the village, and there was only one reason for that painful decision, To protect his brother, the one he loved the most, Sasuke.

He even got Sasuke to come up with the kaleidoscopic tetrad, He completed his goal with his own death.

Leaving everything to his brother, Itachi disappeared.

Sasuke has since developed a deep attachment and love for his brother, along with a vendetta against the village.

Isn't this what we should really think of as a breakup: loving, but having to leave... the painful choice to keep someone, not just because of differences, conditions, or lack of understanding.

And the feelings that remain after the breakup are not resentment or hatred, but regret and longing.

Learning from Itachi and Sasuke

The relationship between Sasuke Uchiha and Itachi speaks volumes to us.

First, they're not lovers. But they share a deeper affection than any other lovers. In the midst of exhausting, fighting, and repetitive relationships, we should ask ourselves if we have a love that quietly sacrifices like Itachi's.

Second, breakups don't have to be painful. If there is more love than hurt after a breakup, it must have been real love. Love that causes pain to the other person may not be love at all.

Third, love is all about sacrifice. I'm not saying you have to give everything, but love is about giving your heart for the other person. It's not about what's comfortable for you, it's about what's comfortable for the other person. That's where we find real love.

Of course, I'm not suggesting that you should tolerate all bad behavior or hurt, but I am suggesting that you take a moment to ask yourself if the behavior was really bad, or if it only seemed wrong within your own frame of reference.

A breakup isn't the end, it's just another way for one person's love to be complete.

▼ Curious about the beautiful brotherhood between Sasuke and Itachi?

Sasuke and Itachi, in their brotherhood, I thought of my brother.