From VRChat Introductions to Emotional Connections - Moments That Were More Real Than Life [Part 1]



From initiation to burung imut, a journey of connection
🧭 In this article
🧚♂️[Part 1] What is VRChat?
- A mirror in the digital world, where you see another you
Have you ever imagined something like this as a child?
‘If I lived in another world, what would it be like?’
That kind of imagination was usually only possible in comics and novels.
Then one day, I stumbled upon the world of ‘VRChat",
And then it became a reality.
At first, it was just curiosity,
For now, it's a space that makes my day a little warmer.
It's been a quiet refuge.
🌐 VRChat is not just a game.
“This is life.”
The game was originally released on Steam in 2017, and has been available for
It's a fast-growing social VR platform.
You don't need to have a VR device.
PC Desktop Modeis enough for anyone to access.
These days, the Meta Questsor other VR devices.
Pick an avatar, explore tons of worlds,
Have a conversation with someone,
Sometimes I just spend time looking at the sky there.
It's literally, another ‘life'.
🎭 Your “avatar” might not be a mask, it might be your real face.


The heart of VRChat is the avatar.
When you first log in, you'll see cute cats, fairies, robots, people, and more.
You'll choose one of hundreds of avatars to animate.
It's easy to think of it as a facade,
Over time, emotions naturally seep into that avatar.
I often use ‘Levi,’ the Attack on Titan cartoon character.
I think I can have a different personality if I look like this.
It's a really simple reason,
I think there's a lot of meaning in that.
🧑🤝🧑 Age, gender, and appearance don't matter here.

Cooking together
In Korea, you always feel like you have to ‘prove' something to be recognized.
But here, there's very little of that.
Middle schoolers, adults in their 50s, men and women.
Just use the ‘Emotions in the here and now’to talk to them.
Some days, I explore the ocean with my Indonesian friends,
Other days, we'd cook together.
We talked more in feelings than words.
‘Even if you don't have words, your heart speaks.
This is where I felt it for the first time.
🪐 Thousands of worlds, endless experiences

There are thousands of worlds in VRChat that someone has created.
- The world of hot spring chatter
- A world in which missions are performed inside a spaceship
- Healing world reading a book in a cafe
- It could be a counseling center, a wedding venue, or a theater stage.
The spaces are simple graphics,
The conversations and emotions exchanged within it are
It's often much more real than it is.
Sometimes I sit on a quiet bench in the world and think
I want to end my day like a meditative stargazer.
I found it very... comfortable.
My favorite world is ‘Indonesia’in the file.
It's a place where you can connect with like-minded people and
You can learn a language by having conversations with Inier.
I don't think it's worth it in game.
📈 VRChat, when did it start?

- Initial beta release: 2014
- Full Steam release: 2017
- Exploding in popularity after the pandemic: 10+ million users worldwide
- Featured communities: Korea, Japan, USA, Europe, etc.
Especially after the pandemic, it's harder to meet in person.
People get married here, have birthday parties here,
I've created counseling sessions and theater stages.
There's even talk of a funeral being held for him.
It was amazing.
💬 For me, VRChat is...
VRChat is a ‘break‘ for me, not an 'escape'.
It was a place of comfort, laughter, and fooling around.
A lot of emotions that were deep inside me get released.
It can be addictive, but you have to be careful,
If you enjoy it in moderation,
The world is going to be a much warmer place than you think.
🎮 [Part 2] From installing VRChat to your first login
- A very easy introductory guide for the “Can I do this?” crowd

When you first come across VRChat, you may have vague expectations of what it's going to be like.
It can feel a little awkward and daunting.
“Is this a game? Where do I get it?”
“I can't do this without a VR device?”
For first-timers like Seo Jun Lee, the
Today we're going to make it super easy and walk you through everything from installation to login 😊.
✅ What devices can I use VRChat on?
The first thing we want to know is this!
VRChat is actually a You don't need to have a VR device It's okay!
📌 3 options
- PC (desktop mode) - Playable with mouse & keyboard
- VR Devices (PCVR) - Oculus Rift, HTC Vive, and more
- Meta Quests (Standalone VR) - Play without a PC
I started out using PC Desktop Modeand then,
I later bought Quest 3 to get a real sense of ‘immersion".
Even if you start out in PC mode, it's still fun and emotionally engaging! 😄.
▼ ‘SKY Light Children’ also available on mobile’
How to install 🖥️ - PC (easiest way!)

- Install and launch Steam → Search for ‘VRChat’ in the store
- Press the [Free] button to install
- Run after installation is complete

Sounds too simple, right?
The first time you run it, you'll see a login screen.
VRChat uses the Works with Steam accountsBut,
Dedicated VRChat accountfor your project.
(Because avatars, friends, settings, and more are saved on other devices too!)
📲 Installing from Meta Quest
- Quest StoreSearch for ‘VRChat’ in
- After installing, run it and you'll see a login window
- ‘Sign in with your 'VRChat account' (important!)
Quest is wireless, so you can move around freely.
Instead, the graphics quality may be lower than PCVR,
Some worlds may have limited access.PCVRs can be shared over a wired connection or an air link.
Unless your network performance is up to date
We recommend a wired purchase and connection whenever possible!
🔑 How to create an account (important!)

- https://vrchat.com Connections
- Register email & nickname and check your verification email
- After logging in, enable avatars and friends
If you don't have email verification, some features may not be available to you, so we've added the
Don't forget to complete the verification email 😆.
🎭 First Login, First Impressions

When you first log in
‘Home World’ You'll start in the same basic space.
From there, you'll choose an avatar and go through a short tutorial.
I can walk, run, and talk freely,
It can feel... awkward and unfamiliar at first.
“Am I really here?”
Because that's what it feels like.
But the feeling slowly becomes familiar,
Someone walks up to you and talks to you,
If you meet the same Korean user...
In that moment, you might feel something warmer than reality 🌸.
🎧 Set up microphone & chat (please do!)


- PC: Select your microphone device in Settings
- VR: Follow the Quest device's own settings
- Push to Talk Recommend feature OFF (so you can speak when you want to speak)
If you can't hear you, or the other person can't hear you, use the
In the lower left corner of the screen, click Microphone iconis enabled!
💡 Tip: Don't panic at first!
- Sometimes users say weird things.
👉 Such a person would be Block That's it! - If a world is too noisy, it's okay to exit quickly.
👉 We recommend starting with the Quiet World and slowly exploring it. - Don't worry if you don't know something.
👉 There are so many friendly people in the world!
🎭 [Part 3] Choosing a VRChat Avatar: Where to Start?
- “I want to write cute and cool characters too, how do I do that?”


When you first enter this world, everyone starts with the same default avatar.
But after a while,
You start to think, "Oh, my God.
“Why is he walking around as a cat?”
“Wow... that avatar is really cool. I want to change mine...”
Yes, that's right.
Your avatar is the most important way you represent yourself in this world.
Today is for those of you who are just starting out like me,
From picking an avatar to
Free sites, what to watch out forfor you 😊.
1️⃣ Default avatar vs custom avatar
- Default avatarBuilt-in Characters in VRChat
→ Simple and straightforward, but they all look alike and lack individuality. - Custom avatars: Cool and cute avatars created by other people
→ You can get them for free or for a fee. It's a truly endless world!
I started out playing around with the default character,
One day, you see a user with a cute cat avatar, and you think to yourself
“I remember being like, ”What the... is that?" 😳 ... and then I realized that it was just a bunch of stuff.
That's when the urge to collect avatars starts to creep in.
2️⃣ How to find an avatar - even for free!

🔍 Find it in Avatar World (easiest!)
- VRChat World ‘Search for ’Avatar'
- ‘Prismic's Avatar Search’ Visit World
- Search for your favorite character
- Click the desired character, then click Mirror Turn it on and check!
❌ Some avatars can't say ‘adult"!
🌐 Free avatar sites (for reference)
- Booth.pm - Japan's largest avatar marketplace (free and paid variants)
- VRCMods.com - International Avatar & World Sharing Sites
- Sketchfab.com - Professional modeling platform, with some exclusive characters
Booth is a Japanese site, but the automatic translation works well enough!
From cute anime-style avatars to bearded monsters... the possibilities are endless.
3️⃣ How do I use a custom avatar? (PC only)
If you want to upload your own avatar file,
Unity.
Although it can be a bit complicated for beginners,
If you search for ‘Upload VRChat avatar’ on YouTube, you'll see the
There are tons of really helpful tutorials!
4️⃣ Avatar settings, don't forget to check this out!


- Setting location: Open menu → [Avatars] tab → Check your avatar list
- Add a favorite: Save your favorite avatars like bookmarks!
- Beware of bad avatars: Weird screen crashes or
We recommend that you don't use avatars with adult content.
Insecure avatars can cause bugs, bouncing, and unpleasant experiences.
If it's too provocative... I get reported sometimes!
5️⃣ How to find your style ✨



At first, everyone thought ‘Find a "pretty avatar" but,
Sometimes I change my mind over time.
- If you like a quiet, relaxing style → Cute animal avatars
- If you're looking for a cool action performance → Ninja, robot type
- If you want to have an affectionate conversation → Expressive 3D animation style
I found the ramshackle wizard character to be comforting, so I decided to use the
I usually walk around with that avatar.
It doesn't have to look like reality.
This is the place where you can see what you look like... Because it's really all about the heart.
🗺️ [Part 4] VRChat World Recommendations & Beginner's Course
- “Is it okay if I'm alone?” Yes, there's a place for that.

When you first enter a virtual space, it looks like
It can feel like you're alone in the middle of a huge city.
While there are tons of worlds,
“Where do I start?” you might ask.
For those who are just starting out, like Seo Jun Lee, the
To help you take your first steps, we've created a
Warm worlds, pretty spaces, and quiet places to relaxListen
Let me summarize it for you 😊.
🌸 1. Sleeping World (Sleeping World)
- The quietest place where you can be alone

As the name suggests, it's a sleepy space.
A comforter or cozy light in a dark room,
Lots of white noise, music playing.
When you want to be alone and quiet,
When emotions are complicated,
Just use the ‘When you want to do nothing’
Enter this sleeping world.
✅ Suggested keywords:
Sleeping,Nap,Dream,Calm
☕ There are many worlds with a cozy coffee shop vibe, or stargazing under the night sky.
🏡 2. Home World / Mirror World
- A place to see your avatar and practice in silence

Manipulating movements and facial expressions can be awkward at first.
In that case, in a world with mirrors
You might want to check out your avatar in private.
🪞 Tip: Search for worlds that contain the word ‘Mirror'!
Create your own acting exercises, poses, and emotions.
Get a little taste of the metaverse 😊.
🍃 3. Japan Shrine / Temple World
- A tranquil Japanese shrine, temple-themed healing world

There are so many shrines, temples, and walking paths in the Metaverse that have a Japanese feel to them.
Mostly Soothing natural sounds, Sunny landscapes, Quiet atmosphere라
Perfect for beginners.
I often spend time in this world as a kind of meditation.
Birds singing, wind chimes, leaves rustling...
It's like a ‘garden of the mind’ that's more serene than the real world.
🎉 4. The Black Cat
- Socialize with users from all over the world

‘Black Cat" is the social world of VRChat.
In a space that looks like a cafe
Everyone is free to have a conversation.
But when you first go to They can be difficult to talk to and can be nervous.
In those cases, it's okay to sit on the sidelines and stare!
I've also had people come up to me and talk to me 😄.
✅ Tip: If you're nervous about turning on your voice at first, use the
Gestures are enough to say hello.
‘Just wave your hand in a ’hi~🙋♂️' motion and they'll understand!
🚀 5. Portal Hub / World Jump Station
- Multiple worlds at a glance, ready to go

If you find it difficult to search for worlds manually,
Portal Hubto your advantage!
Dozens of popular worlds are clustered together like a portal, allowing you to access
I was just strolling around, and then I realized that
Just pick where you want to go.
✅ Suggested keywords:
World Jump,Portal Hub,Favorites
🎯 Minigames, karaoke, RPG, cafe, and more!
📸 6. Photo Zone World & Atmosphere World
- A pretty, Instagrammable space that makes you want to take photos even when you're alone

- Feel like sunlight in a small room
- Moonlit beaches
- Bookcafe under warm rattan lights
These aren't just ‘pretty backgrounds," they're
The Emotionsto hold the.
📷 Turn on avatar pose mode and take a photo.
It's like a life shot in real life!
💡 Tips for beginners
- Start with a quieter world at first.
- If you meet someone who makes you uncomfortable, it's okay to block them right away.
- A hand gesture, a nod, or a smile is all you need.
- If you meet someone you like, don't forget to ‘Friends’ them.
🌿 VRChat Part 1 Final Thoughts
Virtual reality games are sometimes just too beautiful,
It's a space that makes you want to stay longer than you actually do.
But the deeper the emotion,
We suddenly find ourselves asking the question.
“Am I connected now?
Or... is he running away?”
The Indonesian friends I was communicating with
‘The memory of 'burung imut',
The balance of emotions found within it.
I'll walk with you in the next installment 🐢✨.
▼ Virtual Reality: Addiction? Connection? Go to the next installment
See you in the next installment, @muddlebug 🐢💖

Writing this post feels like a lot of emotions have been organized.
‘I still remember laughing with 'imut burung' lol.
If anyone has a similar experience, please share it in the comments! 🐦🌿
+ I've been studying Indonesian on VRChat lately, and it's a lot of fun 😆.