Mystery Days

Smiling doesn't make you a good person - the real face of avoidance

Smiling doesn't make you a good person - the real face of avoidance

We all have that person in our lives. They're soft-spoken, always smiling, and affectionate... but strangely, they never seem to deepen the relationship. On the surface, they seem polite and nice, but when conflict arises, they disappear, and when responsibility arises, they make excuses and slip away. They may be smiling, but you don't feel it. We often refer to this person as “avoidant”. People with avoidant attachment are not honest with their feelings and feel fearful when they get close, so they don't say what they really mean, and in uncomfortable situations, they turn to “haha~” laughter. It's a laugh that's so good that it's...

Hello, this is ShinbiDays.

Hello, this is ShinbiDays.

Hello, and welcome to the ShinbiDays blog. My name is Seo Joon, and I'm a person who wants to live each day to the fullest and capture emotions and information at the same time. This is my first post on this blog, and I think it's a very small step for me. I'm currently running a brand called Shinbi Creative, which is a one-person brand that I'm building by myself, including design, coding, and marketing. But this blog, Mystery Days, is a little different. It's a space that contains the essence of ‘myself’, which is different from business. It's also for making money, but...