Avoidant attachment

Attachment Style Test | Avoidant, Anxious, and Secure traits and interpretation of relationship psychology

Attachment Style Test | Avoidant, Anxious, and Secure traits and interpretation of relationship psychology

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When relationships and romantic relationships don't work out, we often ask ourselves, “Is there something wrong with me?” But psychology has long explained this with the concept of attachment style. Taking an attachment style test to find out if you're secure, avoidant, or anxious can be more than just fun, it can help you understand your relationships. 👉 Take the Attachment Style Test According to research, the ratio of attachment styles in the population is roughly as follows: about half of people are secure, while the rest are either anxious or...

How I came to understand avoidant attachment from my dream ‘self

How I came to understand avoidant attachment from my dream ‘self

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hello. This is MysticDays. Last time, I talked about the avoidant temperament, right? Today, I'm going to talk about people with avoidant attachment because I've been thinking about it again and realized something. What is avoidant attachment? Avoidant attachment is a confusing and difficult type of relationship in which a person tries to get closer to others when they are distant, and pushes them away when they get too close. People with this style of behavior may have memories of expressing their feelings to their parents as a child, only to have them ignored or pushed away. In some cases, they may even blame the other person for everything and engage in lashing out.Taking the initiative in the relationship...

Smiling doesn't make you a good person - the real face of avoidance

Smiling doesn't make you a good person - the real face of avoidance

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We all have that person in our lives. They're soft-spoken, always smiling, and affectionate... but strangely, they never seem to deepen the relationship. On the surface, they seem polite and nice, but when conflict arises, they disappear, and when responsibility arises, they make excuses and slip away. They may be smiling, but you don't feel it. We often refer to this person as “avoidant”. People with avoidant attachment are not honest with their feelings and feel fearful when they get close, so they don't say what they really mean, and in uncomfortable situations, they turn to “haha~” laughter. It's a laugh that's so good that it's...